Have you ever wondered why many of the couples around you are not happy? Think about some of the ideal couples you know. Friends? Relatives? Your parents?
It's highly likely that you couldn't name many. Even your parents may not be the ideal couple. Rarely you see a couple who seem to be made for each other. What makes two people to have such a relationship? It's just that they are comfortable with each other. They have something in common such that they can spend the rest of their life sharing and exploring similar things. Otherwise they will become seperate islands and start living like strangers in the same house.
Even in love marriages, after the initial excitement, one could clearly see that the couples are just going through motions. Where things go wrong? Why most marriages seem to be not working?
It is our belief that every person is destined to be with a right partner. Their CorrectDestiny. It's is up to that person to wait and find the right parner. No, it is not a corny, mushy, romantic notion. You can easily understand this if you have best friends. There are friends and there are best friends. Most people will have friends. Very few will have best friends. If you have best friends then you will know what a difference that makes. That's why people say friendship to love is the best thing that could happen to one.
So how do you find your CorrectDestiny? Well, the answer is simple. You just have to keep looking. But before that, you have to set your priorities right. There is nothing wrong in giving importance to physical appearance, after all, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. But common interests and compatibility are important too. Physical appearance and wealth should not be deal-breakers. When you realize you have nothing in common with someone, you should be willing to walk away even though they score high on non-deal-breakers like physical appearance and wealth. When you have to compromise, compromise on the non-deal-breakers.
In this age of online dating and matrimonial sites, we mostly search for our partners online. The one thing all these sites have in common is that they emphasize on the non-deal-breakers. When you search you have to choose a person from their photos and other useless details shown in the search results. One can't blame these sites, because that's what most people want.
So from the search results you choose one profile and read what they have written about them. Most of the time it will be either
"I am a cool guy, looking for a homely girl."
(or)
"Looking for a tall, well-settled groom. I would like to visit Switzerland."
Or worse, it will be a one page monlogue where they say nothing about themselvels but list out all the qualities they expect in their partner. (By the way, some people actually list the places they want to visit after marriage.)
No wonder most marriages are not working.
So how this site will help you to find your CorrectDestiny?
It's highly likely that you couldn't name many. Even your parents may not be the ideal couple. Rarely you see a couple who seem to be made for each other. What makes two people to have such a relationship? It's just that they are comfortable with each other. They have something in common such that they can spend the rest of their life sharing and exploring similar things. Otherwise they will become seperate islands and start living like strangers in the same house.
Even in love marriages, after the initial excitement, one could clearly see that the couples are just going through motions. Where things go wrong? Why most marriages seem to be not working?
It is our belief that every person is destined to be with a right partner. Their CorrectDestiny. It's is up to that person to wait and find the right parner. No, it is not a corny, mushy, romantic notion. You can easily understand this if you have best friends. There are friends and there are best friends. Most people will have friends. Very few will have best friends. If you have best friends then you will know what a difference that makes. That's why people say friendship to love is the best thing that could happen to one.
So how do you find your CorrectDestiny? Well, the answer is simple. You just have to keep looking. But before that, you have to set your priorities right. There is nothing wrong in giving importance to physical appearance, after all, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. But common interests and compatibility are important too. Physical appearance and wealth should not be deal-breakers. When you realize you have nothing in common with someone, you should be willing to walk away even though they score high on non-deal-breakers like physical appearance and wealth. When you have to compromise, compromise on the non-deal-breakers.
In this age of online dating and matrimonial sites, we mostly search for our partners online. The one thing all these sites have in common is that they emphasize on the non-deal-breakers. When you search you have to choose a person from their photos and other useless details shown in the search results. One can't blame these sites, because that's what most people want.
So from the search results you choose one profile and read what they have written about them. Most of the time it will be either
"I am a cool guy, looking for a homely girl."
(or)
"Looking for a tall, well-settled groom. I would like to visit Switzerland."
Or worse, it will be a one page monlogue where they say nothing about themselvels but list out all the qualities they expect in their partner. (By the way, some people actually list the places they want to visit after marriage.)
No wonder most marriages are not working.
So how this site will help you to find your CorrectDestiny?
